Realitas adalah apa yang menurut Anda real. Atau seperti dinyatakan secara umum, 'persepsi' Anda adalah realitas Anda.Pada umumnya mengubah realitas seseorang mungkin seperti belajar makan dengan tangan kiri setelah selama bertahun-tahun Anda makan dengan tangan kanan. Meskipun hal itu tidak sulit dilakukan, dan setiap orang dapat melakukannya kalau mereka gigih, mungkin bukan hal termudah untuk dilakukan juga. -Retire Young Retire Rich - Robert T. Kiyosaki-

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Kadang kala penghalang terbesar untuk mencapai sukses adalah diri Anda sendiri. Mampukah Anda memperluas dan memperbesar realitas Anda ? Mampukah Anda mengalahkan diri Anda sendiri ?

Realitas Anda tidak lain adalah Cara Berpikir Anda, sebagaimana yang pernah ditulis dalam sebuah buku "Anda adalah Apa yang Anda Pikirkan - Doug Hooper-

Pembelajaran berkesinambungan adalah persyaratan minimum untuk sukses dalam bidang apa pun.- Denis Waitley -

Perjalanan seribu mil selalu diawali dengan satu langkah,Mulailah Langkah pertama dan jaga konsistensi

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Kujaga dan  selalu ku padang indah warna yang terjalin

Percik air pun tak ku biarkan memudarkan warnamu

Indah.... ceria warna mu

Harap tak ada debu di antara rajutan itu

Esok...lusa warnamu tak kan ada yang berubah

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There are moments in life when you miss someone, so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Dream what you want to dream go where you want to go be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying. Don't count the years…count the memories...........Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!

Dah lama banget nih gak ketemu sama temen2...stm 'n smp...kangen banget. Kayaknya indah banget deh kalo inget smp...seru banget pokonya, tampang pun masih lugunya kali ya...kalo boleh milih...aku pengen ngulang masa smp...dibanding stm...L to R... Wita (temen smp) doi kuliah di Budi luhur 'n kebetulan bareng sama si Nina & Dwi...(temen stm), satu lagi si imut Tia.... Tia pa kabar ya? dah lama banget gak denger kabarnya. Wita alias mami...sapaan akrabnya doi temen kelas 1 smp...doi manja banget...padahal kan mami buat aku kalo di sekolah. Dwi 'n Tia temen kelas 1 stm...waktu kelas 1 dwi temen sebangku aku...pi sayang pas kelas 2 kita pisah kelas....tapi masih satu jurusan...Tia juga pisah kelas....wah sejak itu deh kita dah jarang ngobrol lagi. Nina pakarnya yah? waktu stm kita sering ngobrol bareng...karena waktu itu aku sekum osis 'n doi bendaharanya...ya jadi kita sering rapat 'n ngobrol bareng...nih cewe top banget deh...Keep in touch ya all my friends

Kalo liat senyumnya cusmi....jadi sedih nih :(, soalnya awal bulan maret ini dia mau berenti kerja....ya..maklumlah doi kan dah jadi ibu erte, jadi harus bekerja extra dirumah...Wah kalo gak ada susmi...siapa yang mau ngabisin makanan aku cus...kalo gak abis...tapi gak papa lah mungkin itu jalan terbaik yang dipilih cusmi moga2 aja dia bisa jadi istri soleha dan ibu yang baik deh buat anak2nya....oh ya mudah2an...cepet dapet momongan ya cus....trus jangan lupa kabar kabari aku yah.....Let Allah bless u all the time honey...

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Take time to WORK, its the price of success !

Take time to THINK, its the source of power !

Take time to PLAY, its the secret of youth !

Take time to READ, its the fountain of knowledge !

Take time to seek the SPIRIT, its washes the dust from your eyes !

Take time to help and enjoy FRIENDS, theyre the source of happiness !

Take time to LOVE, its the one sacrament of life !

Take time to DREAM, it hitches the soul to the stars !

Take time to LAUGH, its the song that helps with lifes loads !

Take time for BEAUTY, its everywhere in nature !

Take time for HEALTH, its the true wealth and treasure of life !

Take time to PLAN, Its the secret of being able to have time to take time for the first eleven things !

Be bless everyday with wisdom and Love that God has given us

The first secret - the power of thought.

Love begins with our thoughts.

We become what we think about.

Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or her needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The second  secret - the power of respect.

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself. What do I respect about myself? To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself. What do I respect about them?

The third secret - the power of giving.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it!

The more love you give, the more you will receive.

To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - the power of friendship.

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend.

Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love him or her for who they are and not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

 The fifth secret - the power of touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of letting go.

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life.

The seventh secret - the power of communication.

When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: I Love You. Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see him or her. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and...why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of commitment.

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of passion.

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.

Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences. When you felt passionate spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The Essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of trust.

Trust is essential in all loving relationships.

Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust him or her completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself. Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? If the answer is no, think carefully before making a commitment.